When it's more than just the blues
by Esther Crain
Feeling down in the dumps every so often is a normal part of life.
But when you're gripped by an unrelenting sadness or hopelessness that
keeps you from going about your usual routine, it's time to pay
attention: it's the hallmark sign of clinical depression, and an
estimated 7% of adults will experience it, according to the National
Institute of Mental Health. Even with this telltale sign in place, it's
tough for a depressed person to know if she really has the disease.
"Almost all of the symptoms of depression on their own are experienced
by everyone at one time or another," explains Jennifer Payne, MD,
director of the Women's Mood Disorders Center at Johns Hopkins
University in Baltimore. If you've been dealing with four or more of the
following symptoms every day for two weeks, and they've impaired the
way you usually function (for example, prevented you from working, being
a responsible parent, or seeing friends), it's time to check in with
your doctor.
You're eating more (or less) than usual
Depression leaves you withdrawn and checked out, and that can manifest as a loss of
appetite.
"If your brain is preoccupied with negative thoughts, you may forget to
eat or lose interest in cooking or preparing meals," says Yvonne
Thomas, PhD, Los Angeles-based psychologist specializing in depression
and self-esteem. On the other hand, sometimes the disease kicks in the
opposite effect, making you hungry and driving you to overeat. "The mix
of emotions that tend to accompany depression—sadness, pessimism about
the future, and low self-esteem—can compel you to try to soothe your
feelings with food binges," says Thomas.
You're sleeping too much or too little
Some people with depression find themselves snoozing under the covers more; the disengagement and dip in energy make you
tired all the time, says Thomas. "
Sleeping
more is also a way depressed people escape from their sadness; it
becomes a refuge," she adds. Others with depression experience restless
or interrupted sleep or even insomnia—they're too wired by obsessive
thoughts or ruminations to wind down and score the seven to eight hours
per night most adults need. Thing is, not only can sleep changes be a
tipoff to the disease, but they also make it worse. When you're not
getting the proper amount of shuteye, your body's internal clock gets
out of sync, and you're even more tired and unfocused...and less able to
cope.
Small things agitate you
It's a sneaky sign few people recognize: depression can show up as
heightened irritability, says Jennifer Wolkin, PhD, clinical assistant
professor in the department of psychiatry and anesthesiology at New York
University's Joan H. Tisch Center for Women's Health. You might feel
cranky and grumpy; little things that normally wouldn't register set you
off and leave you snapping at friends and coworkers. Part of the
prickliness may be the way depression exacerbates normal hormonal
swings. But it could also be triggered by the weight of so many heavy
emotions. "When people are in physical pain, they often get angry and
irritated easily, and it's the same with psychological pain—you don't
feel good or like your usual self, and that saps your patience and puts
you more on edge," says Thomas.
You can't concentrate or focus
Forgetting work deadlinesA
or when to pick up your kids from a playdate? Feel like your mind
resembles an out-of-focus photo, and the fuzziness has made a dent in
the way you weigh choices and make decisions? That's your brain on
depression. Being preoccupied with thoughts of sadness and emptiness can
plunge you into a head fog that affects your job, memory, and
decision-making skills, says Wolkin. In turn, that unfocused thinking
can lead you to make poor choices or take on unhealthy, risky behavior.
You don't enjoy the things that once made you happy
You used to hit happy hour with your favorite group of coworkers, but
for the last few weeks, you've been ducking out. Or you always looked
forward to your nightly run, but these days, you can't muster the
interest. Not taking part in things you once enjoyed because they no
longer give you pleasure is a telltale sign of depression. "A person who
is simply blue might skip a few outings, then get back in the swing of
things," says Wolkin. "But depression makes you apathetic about
activities and hobbies that once gave you joy, and that makes you
isolate yourself." It sets up that vicious cycle: depression robs you of
your ability to derive pleasure from experiences, so you stop doing the
very things that could brighten your mood.
You feel down on yourself and worthless
If you're constantly putting yourself down, or you feel worthless or
inconsequential, something is up. "Repetitive thoughts along the lines
of 'I'm not good enough' or 'I don't matter' are dangerous because they
can fuel self-harming behavior," says Wolkin. When you think this way,
you tend to find ways to verify the negativity, and that in turn makes
you more depressed and more at risk. Extreme guilt for things you aren't
solely responsible for—for example, a
bad breakup or sudden job loss—also bashes your self-esteem and is a tip-off to depression, says Dr. Payne.
You're preoccupied with thoughts of death
Persistent thoughts about
ending your life,
wondering how friends and family would feel if you went and did it,
pondering different ways to carry out the act, and even general thoughts
about death are all strong indicators that it's time to reach out for
professional help, says Wolkin. "Because these thoughts pose such a
direct threat to your life, it's important to seek help if you
experience them daily or almost every day for two weeks, even if you
don't recognize any other symptoms of depression in yourself," she says.
You're panicky and anxious
Overwhelming feelings of fear are usually thought to signify an
anxiety disorder.
And while that's often true, they can also be a clue to depression.
"Anxious feelings often coincide with depression, and some depressed
people have panic attacks," says Dr. Payne. Anxiety is more than just
the normal apprehension most of us feel when we're challenged; it's a
constant feeling of panic and obsessive thoughts that often show up in
physical symptoms such as rapid heartbeat, excessive perspiration, and
sleep problems. The tricky thing is, even though anxiety can signal
depression, it's possible that a person with depression also has an
anxiety disorder as well. If you feel overwhelming anxiety, consider it
another crucial reason to seek help from your doc.
Your energy level has hit the wall
Depression-related lethargy may be simply the consequence of not
eating enough or sleeping too much. But it's also the result of having a
black cloud of sadness or hopelessness over you all the time. Dealing
with chronic emotional pain is an energy suck, and it makes you too
dragged and tired to tackle routine tasks, not to mention work and
family responsibilities. "You feel overwhelmed by day to day life; even
getting out of bed and taking a shower becomes exhausting," says Wolkin.
When you're
always tired and that fatigue impairs your life, it's time to seek help.
You're dealing with unexplained aches and pains
"Emotional pain from depression that you aren't getting help for can
be channeled throughout your body and show up as physical ailments, like
headaches, stomach problems, neck and back pain, even nausea," says
Thomas. "I see this with many of my patients; they're holding so much
sadness and distress inside, these feelings end up playing out in other
ways." Not every cramp or twinge is a symptom of depression, of course.
But if you're suffering from a chronic ailment you can't attribute to
another cause that isn't clearing up on its own, "see a doctor to get it
checked out, but also consider it a possible sign of depression too,"
says Thomas.
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