Being depressed and angry as a teenager can affect your love life 25 YEARS later

Teenage blues and anger can taint a person's love life a quarter of a century later, according to a new report.

A study is helping to crack the code to happiness by exploring the long reach of depression and anger over more than two decades.

The study, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, followed 341 people for 25 years.

It found that negative emotions they may have suffered as young adults can have a lasting grip on their relationships well into middle age.

The fact that depression and anger experienced during the teenage years clung to people - even through major life events such as marriage, careers and having children - was surprising.

University of Alberta researcher Matthew Johnson, said: 'We assume, or hope, that high school experiences fade away and don't necessarily resonate 25 years later.

‘The fact that symptoms of depression and expressions of anger can endure over many large events in life shows how important it is to deal with mental health early.

‘Sometimes, problems don't just dissipate. How you grow and change over those early years becomes crucial to future happiness.’

The research, drawn from a larger study which began in 1985, surveyed 178 women and 163 men through their transition to adulthood from age 18 to 25.

It then studied them again on their perceived stress levels at age 32, and on the quality of their intimate relationships at age 43, to find out whether anger or depression they may have felt as young adults was still affecting those bonds.

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People who experienced a lot of negative emotions when they are teenagers can be more likely to divorce

The findings point to the importance of recognising that early mental health does influence couple relationships and that, in turn, can have social costs later on - such as divorce and domestic violence.

As individuals, people can help themselves by ‘recognising the fact that where they are in their couple relationship now is likely shaped by earlier chapters in their lives,’ Dr Johnson added.

‘It's not only your partner's current behaviour or your current behaviour shaping your relationship, but the story you bring with you.’

Source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2623324/Being-depressed-angry-teenager-affect-love-life-25-YEARS-later.html