Feeling physically fit and mentally well are important at any age and
the two are closely linked. People who feel fit and well often have a
more positive outlook on life, and the reverse can be true too. Feeling
unwell or lonely is not an inevitable part of ageing and it’s never too
late to think about improving your well-being. Even little changes can
make a big difference.
This guide provides some general advice for feeling well and overcoming loneliness later in life.
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Looking after your body
Staying active
Keeping moving and developing strength, flexibility and balance are
all increasingly important as we grow older. Keeping fit can help you
feel better and maintain a healthy weight, as well as building your
confidence, helping you stay independent and improving your general
sense of well-being.
If you are not very active, you will need to start slowly and build
up to more demanding exercise. Your GP can advise you on what’s safe and
appropriate for you. If you’re healthy and have no conditions that
limit your mobility the Department of Health recommends that you do
two-and-a-half hours of moderate aerobic exercise a week. Guidelines
also suggest two sessions of muscle strengthening activity every week.
If you’re not very mobile or steady on your feet you can do a range
of exercises sitting down that will improve your flexibility and
strength. If you have a health condition that makes physical activity
difficult, speak to your doctor who can help you choose the right
exercise for you.
Healthy eating check list
- Eat five portions of fruit and vegetables a day
- Drink 6-8 cups of fluid a day - tea, water, juice and squash all count
- Eat fish twice a week
- Don't eat too much salt or saturated fat
Conditions and illnesses
Contact your GP as soon as possible if you have any concerns about
your health. You should also have your eyes checked regularly. People
over the age of 60 are entitled to free eye tests, funded by the NHS.
These checks mean that a range of conditions including cataracts and
glaucoma can be picked up and treated early on.
Feeling well
Feeling well is not just about being physically fit and healthy, it
is also important that you feel well mentally. It’s vital to have
contact with friends and family whose company you enjoy. If your family
don’t live nearby you might want to consider taking up activities or
joining groups that will help you to meet people. It can be really hard
to make that first step so if you are nervous about going along to a
social group you could ask someone to go with you.
Regular phone calls, sending emails
or using the online video telephone
service Skype can all make staying
in touch easier.
Community-based clubs are not for everyone so if you’re not keen but
would like some company, befriending might be for you. You can arrange
for a
Royal Voluntary Service volunteer
to regularly spend some time with you at home, to have a chat and a cup
of tea. Royal Voluntary Service is there every step of the way,
providing simple, practical and neighbourly support in your community,
which means you’re never on your own. Our befriending service means that
you will have someone to talk to when it matters most.
Volunteering
It is also important to stay active and engaged in your local
community. Choosing activities that get you out and about, meeting new
people or volunteering in your local area can help give you a real sense
of achievement in your life. Most people who
volunteer
give their time in order to help others, but there is a secondary
benefit – volunteering is good for you. Working with other people,
learning new skills, meeting new friends and knowing that you are making
a difference can all help you to stay fit and active.
Depression
We all feel down from time-to-time but feeling depressed isn’t an
inevitable part of growing older. Depression can be triggered by a range
of different events including bereavement, health worries or loss of
independence. Whatever causes it, it is a treatable condition. If you
are down or think you may be experiencing feelings of depression you
should arrange to see your GP.
Keep a diary of how you’re feeling so you can talk to your doctor
about it. It may help you to set yourself little goals for the day, plan
your activities, start small and build up to bigger plans. Review your
progress and celebrate your achievements.
If you have experienced bereavement and would like to know about how other people have dealt with it, you can read Carol’s tips for dealing with bereavement
Spotting the signs of depression
Do you:
- Feel unhappy?
- Worry or feel anxious a lot?
- Struggle to find positives in life?
- Not care about your appearance?
- Struggle to do simple tasks?
- Find you’re sleeping too much or too little?
Have you:
- Lost interest in life and what you used to enjoy?
- Withdrawn from family and friends?
- Lost your appetite?
If you have experienced some of these symptoms for more than a couple of weeks visit your GP for support and advice.
Five small steps to a healthier, happier you
A few changes can make a big difference to your overall sense of
well-being. Here are five small steps you can take to make you feel
better.
- Get active - Do some light exercise, whether it’s tending your
garden, using the stairs more regularly or joining a walking club.
- Get involved - Take steps to become more engaged in your local
community by visiting a lunch club or volunteering at a local scheme.
- Stay connected - Talking to people is one of the best ways to
feel good and avoid loneliness. See friends and family regularly, or if
you can't get out but would like some company try using the internet to
keep in touch with people wherever they are. If you don’t have a
computer at home most libraries have computers you can use free of
charge, or for a small fee. Contact Royal Voluntary Service about its
befriending and transport services so you have the practical support you
need.
- Eat well - A healthy and balanced diet will help you feel your best. It’s important to stay hydrated too.
- Sleep well - You may find that your sleep patterns change as you
get older and you need less sleep than you used to. It might make you
feel lethargic and down. You can improve your sleep by reducing day-time
naps, going to bed at the same time each night and reducing the amount
of caffeine you drink.
Please exercise your common sense when considering this guide and
whether to take any of the steps that may be suggested in it. Whilst we
have taken reasonable care to ensure that any factual information is
accurate and complete, most of the information in this guide is based on
our views and opinions (and sometimes the views and opinions of the
people or organisations we work with). As a result, we cannot make any
promises about the accuracy or the completeness of the information and
we don’t accept any responsibility for the results of your reliance on
it.
Source: http://www.royalvoluntaryservice.org.uk/get-help/advice-and-support/feeling-well-and-overcoming-loneliness?gclid=CIOb6LfPwM0CFZUW0wodsu0L2g